Why the Calm Corner Isn't Calming
Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., LCSW
HumanUp Founding Expert
- Author of NYT Bestsellers The Whole-Brain Child & No-Drama Discipline
- Founder & Executive Director, The Center for Connection
- Pediatric Psychotherapist & Mom of 3
The Brain Science Behind Calm Corners
The idea of a calm corner is rooted in helping children self-regulate their emotions. However, the brain's development plays a significant role in how effective these strategies can be.
- Prefrontal Cortex Development: This area of the brain, responsible for impulse control and emotional regulation, isn't fully developed until adulthood. Young children often struggle to access this part of their brain, especially when upset.
- Emotional Flooding: When children are overwhelmed by emotions, their brains can become flooded with stress hormones like cortisol. This flooding makes it difficult for them to calm down without external support.
- Attachment and Safety: A child's need for safety and attachment can override their ability to self-soothe. Feeling disconnected or insecure may hinder their willingness to use a calm corner effectively.
Why Generic Advice Fails
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